How Can You Tell? ( Archived) (3)

Someone I once knew a long time ago said something that stuck with me in the love and romance department. 'The heart knows things the mind can't even begin to understand'. When I was younger and I heard this I thought, 'How profound'. As I grew and time pasted and I developed further into adulthood I believed this to be true. A few long term relationships later and my heart feeling a lot heavier, I thought, maybe my mind can teach my heart a thing or two. After all I don't want to spend my life a beautiful woman with my only my cats as companions (I do love my cats!). It seems giving my heart to another did not work to well. And why should it, if they did not want it in the first place? It gets more and more difficult to find a man who is looking for a lifetime with one woman. I do want to be 'the' woman for a good man, but I really think that as time passes and I grow older, that it may be a reality that this won't ever happen. I misssed my calling. Are all you men really that fed up with women these days that all you really want are casual relationships? Friendships, intimate encounters, no strings attached types? I sure hope someone can enlighten me as I am really getting disheartened.

Good luck finding love...