Ideas on how to deal with the x's family at events (31)
dancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 PostsJust grin and bear it is about all we can offer for advice. It is for your child and well do what we can for them. Is there anyone you could take with you, like a male best friend of yours that she might know or any friends who are still "on your side?" Even a close co-worker who might know the whole family. Just someone that you would have to make you feel more comfortable with. The only other thing I have to say is thank God and appreciate the fact that they'll let you be there for her at all. Make the best of it. Good luck! 
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There is no one to take with me I wish there were then it might be a little easier to go over there
I have to stand at the door for a sec before I knock sometimes but I always go in Like you said it is for her and I love her so I will endure what ever they dish out just so I can see her
I have to stand at the door for a sec before I knock sometimes but I always go in Like you said it is for her and I love her so I will endure what ever they dish out just so I can see her
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I know where you are. All I can say I can guess your daughter is the most important person there and as long as she wants you there thats all that matters. Keep your head up you little girl loves you.
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i feel for you....and completeley understand...my advise..if you wont feel comfartable ..dont go..and dont worry about it...when you see your child next .you treat that day as if its your childs birthday....do something special etc...as long as you show no hostility as you say..your child will learn the truth and also defend any downgrades spoken ...good luck on which ever you choose
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I refuse to not go
I would much rather put up with it than not see my daughter
that really isn't an option for me
they couldn't keep me away at gun point I don't care if it was a cannon I would still go
I would much rather put up with it than not see my daughter
that really isn't an option for me
they couldn't keep me away at gun point I don't care if it was a cannon I would still go
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Thanks for the advice all you's people I apprec.
I will check later
time to take a nap now
I will check later
time to take a nap now
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Just push through it and enjoy your time spent with her. Don't let them ruin it for you. You should show them that you are not intimidated by them and just be confident and enjoy.
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I will thanks for the advice
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take a lady friend
and if they say somthing out of line
just smile and say
that kind of talk is why i come to see my daughter
and not you
just a thought but what do i know
and if they say somthing out of line
just smile and say
that kind of talk is why i come to see my daughter
and not you
just a thought but what do i know
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I will definatley use that one thatnks
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