I am a little thing with a big meaning. I help everybody. I unlock doors, open hearts, dispel prejudice. I create friendship and goodwill. I inspire courtesy and admiration. Everybody loves me. I bore no one. I violate no law. I cost nothing. Many have praised me. No one has ever condemned me. I am pleasing to those of high and low degree. I am useful every moment of the day.
Male and female represent the two sides of the great radical dualism. But in fact they are perpetually passing into one another. Fluid hardens to solid, solid rushes to fluid. There is no wholly masculine man, no purely feminine woman. Margaret Fuller (1810 - 1850), Woman in the Nineteenth Century, 1845
What is most beautiful in virile men is something feminine; what is most beautiful in feminine women is something masculine. Susan Sontag (1933 - 2004), Against Interpretation, 1966
"A friend who is far away, is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand. Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring, and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley, than to those who inhabit the mountain? "
A stiff apology is a second insult.... The injured party does not want to be compensated because he has been wronged; he wants to be healed because he has been hurt.
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
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Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
---Confucius