Searching for love, is she out there? ( Archived) (11)

Just wondering if my true love is out there listening?

I believe she is,just be yourself and she will come to you, good luck x

When the time is right God will send you the lady you are supposed to be with. For me, instead of waiting on God, I was married three times, twice to the same man which was a BIG mistake. I should have waited on God to send me who I was supposed to be with. Sometimes as Christians we do things on own instead of waiting on God. But out of the marriages I do have two wonderful children. I do know this, that if you are a Christian, you are not supposed to marry a non Christian because the relationship will never work out.

Ya never know what can happen...
Folks are wonderful here.

Waiting doesn't work. I can assure you of that. Especially if you're a male since women rarely, if ever, approach a man first.

Is she out there? I'm sure she is. Finding her is an entirely different matter.

Read my response to the thread, "Do you have a secret someone you would like to date on Connecting singles?"

It seems that the only way to find her is to participate in dating. Which means that you'll have to date women who aren't necessarily her in order to have a chance to find her. And that means breaking the hearts of those who aren't her.

Wouldn't it be great if you could just order a soulmate from Sears, and save all this unnecessary heartbreaking?

Depends on how you wait, and for how long you wait...A perfect soulmate will leave you bitter, and wanting...for there is no such person.

Women do approach, but it takes more than a man merely standing in one spot.

Where do you look? Searching...

Participating is a given. Breaking hearts need not be part of the search. Oh, it will happen. That is the human way. But, to go through a group and cast aside until you are satified? Is that not a game? Is this not a play on women?
Would you really know this vision you seek? Or, is it just that, a vision...until reality snaps you awake to the many imperfections we all carry?
So breaking hearst is the way to yur love. Then do not complain if you are cast aside for another. Unless I have read all wrong, and I want you to please show me where, this is the messege I have read from here to the other thread...You yearn, need, want...HOWEVER, have a halt. What is this halt?

Soulmates come as many...forms as freinds, people we meet breifly but touch as a fingerprint on them...
Crious why so many rest thier love future on this soulmate wave...

nene what the hell are you talking about?lol
anyway ,i find that you sometimes do have to date a lot of people to meet the one that strikes your fancy.Sometimes you meet him on the first try but more often then not you have to meet a lot of potentials.A soulmate to me is not my friends.a soulmate to me is my one true love which lasts for the rest of my life.I have yet to find him so NEXT !!lol

LOL, I'm sorry...I had read the other threads and responses by abra,, and my mind just wandered, hehe...
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The problem is trying to hard.