first meeting and i love you = too much ( Archived) (5)

May 21, 2007 1:32 AM CST first meeting and i love you = too much
jumiajna
jumiajnajumiajnaMcMinnville, Oregon USA3 Threads 4 Posts
A little history first. I met a man online at the end of April and we have been talking since via email and phone. We were finally able to meet up yesterday and at the end of the evening, he gave me a hug and told me that I was the one that he wanted and that he loved me. To me this is a little bit too much way to soon especially for a first meeting. Or am I just blowing this way out of proportion? ANy help would be great cause I am new to this internet dating thing and this just blows my mind. It this typical? And if not then where are all of the good men at? Thanks for anything
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May 21, 2007 1:35 AM CST first meeting and i love you = too much
porsha69
porsha69porsha69Birmingham, UK4 Threads 1,422 Posts
Well... The way you have explained the situation, he does seem a lil immature and naive. But what the hell do I know?? He could be genuinely a good, caring man, even if a lil emotional!
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May 21, 2007 1:37 AM CST first meeting and i love you = too much
sassie431
sassie431sassie431southern, California USA45 Threads 500 Posts
I think it is way to early to be saying I love you. Take it slow, if he truely believes he loves you he will wait.


Ask yourself if you feel any red flags... And listen to them..
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May 21, 2007 1:54 AM CST first meeting and i love you = too much
jumiajna
jumiajnajumiajnaMcMinnville, Oregon USA3 Threads 4 Posts
His pic is also completely different then what he said he was. ALso he is older than I though that doesn't matter as much but I am unsure what I should do next. I have been in relationships with immature men before abd don't look forward to repeating it. I already have kids. DOn't want another one.LOL But thanks for the advice.
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May 21, 2007 2:32 AM CST first meeting and i love you = too much
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
I agree totally..............WAY TOO SOON on a date site having met only once..........and i should know........wave
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