would it be good for me to date a single mom if i want kids of my own too? (6)
tinapeiskentro, Attica Greece3 Threads 61 Posts
why not?....would she want to have other kids?..or kids of yours?...If you don't try and date anyway how would you know?
wouldn't this create an enormous amount of tension between our kids and her kids? i suppose i would need to love her loads to get in smth like this, but then again i would need to love her loads anyways. maybe i just need to listen to other people's opinions on the subject.
Were you both to have children I'd hope you loved each other anyway, sometimes it's better to listen to your heart than what others say
Hi Tin , The answer is ' May be , May be not ' . Going into a relationship with a single mum and a young child needs a lot of care . You will need to be able to leave space for ' Mum and child , Mum and her X , child and the other parent , the child and the other parent ' . Your question tells me that you may need a longer time to familiarise yourself with all of these issues before thinking of any thing serious . Keep in mind that both the mum and child have already gone through a bad experience , a little thinking may prevent a second . Speak to your partner and ask her about her emotional needs . Wish you luck .
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