lonely all the time. (5)

my husband left me a year and a half ago.for another women, i have few choice names for her which i won't mention here. he broke my heart in a million pieces. and i still have not gotten over it.i just want to hurt them both. and the worst part of it is they live just 3 blocks down the street from me. it's a small town, of all the places to live they moved down there like rubbing my face in it. i have been alone everynight sincne he left and i am so damm lonely that i can't stand it. i am not the kind that likes to be alone.i am so sick and tired of being alone i could just screem.

hi there, i know what you mean. fortunately for me my soon to be ex moved half way across the country. but i understand the loneliness. do you have any friends nearby. if not, i have some thoughts. let me know if you want to chat.

I hear ya though i may be young i know the feeling of being alone i have lost a loved one 3years ago my love at the time passed away in a car accident from a drunk driver and i havnt been the same ever since... i feel like im always alone and nobody seems to like me anymore... i guess its cause i feel like i have a part of me missing and i know exactly how you feel maybe not the same situation but the same empty feeling inside... why cant we just have someone come along and make everything alright... sigh if ya need to talk im sure we are here for ya

when you truly love yourself u will let go of all this hurt and anger.
Why would anyone want to date people that are such bummers.

Angry and hurt and resentful. If its a small town where else do you expect them to live? Who cares anyway! Good Riddance. The best thing you can do is clean up your house and yourself and make yourself happy. Im sure they are a wreck and you are better off.

quit making yourself out to be the victim.
They are how they are and are not going to change. Accept it and you owuldnt want somoene so insecitive anyway. Your probably just holding on to whats old and feels comfortable even though its not right.

When the self love replaces the hate, thats when you will find someone and wont spend time thinking about them so much.
you might also have too much time on your hands.

And dude...
A girl will feel sympathy for you, but that can be a real Date killer and may send a girl running for the hills. Its a terrible tragedy..but you know what..I have to die too..and so do you...
She wouldnt want you hanging around moping over her. YOu got to go out and have fun! go out by yourself, spend money on yourself, pamper yourself. Go out to eat, to the movies. A GF is icing on the cake, not the whole cake itself. Dont bring that up on the first date, show her how fun you can be 1st.
Thats somethuing you may not wanna bring up until a few weeks into a relationship, and dont harp on it, unless she askes or shares a similar tragedy.

Otherwise your gunna atrract other depressed and miserable people and as you know -1 + -1 = -2