Sometimes I wonder if it's because people want perfection in another, or just maybe not many down to earth single people are around anymore? Any thoughts?
Im sorry bmxgirl but arent you talking in the ither thread about were are the goodlooking guys and your in this thread talking about how guys that want the goodlooking girls are bad people. so wich is it? is average ok or not?
I divorced a "good looking" man eleven years ago, it taught me well about myself and I chose to make changes on my whole perspective too. A man with a true heart and personality would be much preferable than a "hot" looking one, at least for me.
i was engadged to a guy that was far from hot... i loved him and he started to beat on me... i brough up going to see someone to work out his anger issues and he freaked out... at this point in my life i don't think being hot or being okay or hell... even ugly matters. Everyone can be an a**hole.
You were very smart to leave an abusive relationship. That's not the kind of relationship anyone should stay in, no matter what. However, not all men are bad. Discernment helps a whole lot. Have made my own share of bad choices with dating or marriage that ended in divorce, but...there are at least a couple of good guys I will remember forever...
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