I spent 16 years being one, and I know all about it. I will admit that it even carried on after I married. I guess that is why I was not so bad when I caught my husband cheating. What goes around, comes around, as they say.
It is very very complicated. I don't even know how it happened to tell the truth. I just woke up one day 16 years later, after being in love so long with a complete waste of space, and realised what I was! He was my best friend, I miss him, but I am so much better off without that kind of relationship in my life!
We all do things at time's that dont make any sense we just go with the flow and what feel's good at the time without any deeper thought or consideration of the consequences.
You do come to realise that it was all a waste of space in a quantum way. Dont think he could have really been your best friend if he was he would'nt have expected you to hold on and wait forever. Is he still married.
You are much better off without that type of relationship on your life....frees up the mind a great deal.
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I spent 16 years being one, and I know all about it. I will admit that it even carried on after I married. I guess that is why I was not so bad when I caught my husband cheating. What goes around, comes around, as they say.