relationships and friendship (9)

Aug 21, 2007 4:02 PM CST relationships and friendship
beyondlove
beyondlovebeyondlovewest, Auckland New Zealand1 Threads 1 Posts
would you see someone, if he or she was already in a relationship
and living with the person?or would you say I am not interested !!
Aug 21, 2007 4:43 PM CST relationships and friendship
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
No brainer there. NOT interested. How would you feel if you were his partner and found out he was seeing someone else at the same time?
Aug 21, 2007 4:47 PM CST relationships and friendship
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Yep No hassle there at all.

If already in a relationship leave them alone.

Besides if that person is going to dump a relationship for you what are they going to do with you when they get bored. Remember they said they loved the person they were with at one time or another. so those words from this person really mean nothing.
Aug 21, 2007 7:09 PM CST relationships and friendship
GoGirl1302
GoGirl1302GoGirl1302Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia21 Threads 618 Posts
Am curious to know if this topic is personal experience to you beyond....

Louie and Drags to me are right wouldn't like it done to me and if someone flicks their partner off so easily for you than only gonna do the same to you in time.

I had the courage to get out of both my marriage and defacto before I explored elsewhere and also to help find myself and stand on my own two feet.

Seems too easy these days for people to flit from one affair/relationship to another.

But once again each to their own - I just believe in karma an people who do see others outside relationship/marriage rarely tell their partners - maybe if they did and was open then at least everyone aware but that is very rare.
Aug 22, 2007 2:44 AM CST relationships and friendship
Mastang
MastangMastangPerth, Western Australia Australia1 Posts
confused bananapeace
Aug 22, 2007 7:09 PM CST relationships and friendship
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
applause applause applause
Aug 22, 2007 8:59 PM CST relationships and friendship
Hello_you
Hello_youHello_youNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand26 Threads 3 Polls 502 Posts
thanks for the claps.....glad you approve.wink
Sep 15, 2007 11:34 PM CST relationships and friendship
lunalizzy
lunalizzylunalizzySafety Bay, Western Australia Australia1 Posts
It depends what you are looking for though. I would assume there is no current chance of a long-term commitment, but that suits some people!

At the end of the day it's all about personal choice and values.

I would say I'm not interested... If someone is living with another, be it happily or not, they are either not available to make their current r/ship work, or plain not available.
Sep 16, 2007 5:56 AM CST relationships and friendship
torqoise_gal
torqoise_galtorqoise_galMelbourne, Victoria Australia2 Threads 53 Posts
The fact that they want to see a female outside of their relationship says heaps about where their head's at.

How many OTHER women could they be seeing OUTSIDE the relationship?


scold


At the end of the day you deserve better handshake
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