For those of you that have checked on your profile that you want kids or are undecided I pose a question.
What if you met someone who does not want any/anymore kids? Would you give up your hopes of having kids to be with someone you liked alot or no?
If they do have children, how would you feel about the bond they may share with their ex of sharing a beautiful experience of having a baby together and knowing you will never share that with them? Some people look at having a baby as the ultimate bond..was just wondering?
Not trying to trash your thread, but kinda relevent. Hmmm, my profile said I didn't want anymore. He didn't want ANY. Why is it he adores my two and there's a third en route?
Most only know what they want right that second.
Love + kids + life can leave unexpected outcomes. lol
Well. I don't want kids. I like children, I do.... But they just don't fit with my life. Besides I know I wouldn't have the time or energy required to adequately care for and love a child. So I WOULD LOVE to meet a guy that feels the same way as I do however every guy that I come across wants at least one child.
What if you weren't childless but say were in a circumstance where you couldn't see your children because of an a**hole ex that manipulated the system and you wanted one more?
I know as for me whether my ex is an a**hole or not, Ot os a special bond to carry a child of someone you love....Just hypothetical
After I had my 3rd child with my ex husband he tryed to tell me to get fixed. I told him NO! If he didn't want anymore kids he can do it. By this time I knew the marriage was coming to an end. I figured that if I ever met someone and they wanted a child I would like to give them one. I also feel that I would want to share that bond with someone too.
Im facing that Situation now.... i want a yard full of kids hell i want my own football team, but he doesn't want anymore children at this time? :( but we will see what the future brings us we don't have a turkey in the oven either.... but time will tell but i will settle for his son's they lvoe me to death..... but one day i will know what it feels like to be called mommy
my kids are almost grown and i didnt think id ever have another...to old i thought really...but BUT thats a question i have been asked a lot lately, would i have any more??? im shocked actually by how many men around my age would like to be having babies...i know i would if the right man came along but he would have to change diapers! lol as far as him having kids from previous relationships? id welcome them with open arms as i would my own and respect any relationship they have with their mother.
I swore I'd never date a guy with kids and I will never have any more kids of my own. But my last relationship proved me so wrong. I fell in love with all 4 of his kids. I've always been a "kid" person but sure don't have the patience I use to have. Even tho I can't have any more of my own I would, I would welcome someone elses. LOL It was nice to feel needed again.
I guess that would have to be a call for both to make. Some may look at it as a whole new adventure and sharing with what they could not with their other partner(s)
I, like most men, want an heir to my empire! I will not, however,have a child to fulfill some expectation of a relationship! I want to have children as the result of a quality relationship with the right girl, not as a function of building my kingdom.....!
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What if you met someone who does not want any/anymore kids? Would you give up your hopes of having kids to be with someone you liked alot or no?
If they do have children, how would you feel about the bond they may share with their ex of sharing a beautiful experience of having a baby together and knowing you will never share that with them? Some people look at having a baby as the ultimate bond..was just wondering?