The Ultimate Bond? ( Archived) (21)

Feb 25, 2006 3:10 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
For those of you that have checked on your profile that you want kids or are undecided I pose a question.

What if you met someone who does not want any/anymore kids? Would you give up your hopes of having kids to be with someone you liked alot or no?

If they do have children, how would you feel about the bond they may share with their ex of sharing a beautiful experience of having a baby together and knowing you will never share that with them? Some people look at having a baby as the ultimate bond..was just wondering?
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Feb 25, 2006 4:02 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
LMAOOOOOOOOO

Not trying to trash your thread, but kinda relevent. Hmmm, my profile said I didn't want anymore. He didn't want ANY. Why is it he adores my two and there's a third en route?

Most only know what they want right that second.

Love + kids + life can leave unexpected outcomes. lol
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Feb 25, 2006 4:09 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Plus..ain't it special to be carrying his child? I am sure he will not ever regret having this child you carry!
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Feb 25, 2006 4:17 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
pookiebuns
pookiebunspookiebunsBrockville, Canada16 Threads 142 Posts
Well. I don't want kids. I like children, I do.... But they just don't fit with my life. Besides I know I wouldn't have the time or energy required to adequately care for and love a child. So I WOULD LOVE to meet a guy that feels the same way as I do however every guy that I come across wants at least one child.
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Feb 25, 2006 4:27 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
What if you weren't childless but say were in a circumstance where you couldn't see your children because of an a**hole ex that manipulated the system and you wanted one more?

I know as for me whether my ex is an a**hole or not, Ot os a special bond to carry a child of someone you love....Just hypothetical
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Feb 25, 2006 8:16 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
After I had my 3rd child with my ex husband he tryed to tell me to get fixed. I told him NO! If he didn't want anymore kids he can do it. By this time I knew the marriage was coming to an end. I figured that if I ever met someone and they wanted a child I would like to give them one. I also feel that I would want to share that bond with someone too.
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Feb 25, 2006 8:21 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
southernbelle22
southernbelle22southernbelle22Victoria, Texas USA13 Threads 329 Posts
Im facing that Situation now.... i want a yard full of kids hell i want my own football team, but he doesn't want anymore children at this time? :( but we will see what the future brings us we don't have a turkey in the oven either.... but time will tell but i will settle for his son's they lvoe me to death..... but one day i will know what it feels like to be called mommy
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Feb 25, 2006 8:24 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Well..at least he said not at this time and if you can be happy without that is cool too!

Good luck sweety
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Feb 25, 2006 11:45 PM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
my kids are almost grown and i didnt think id ever have another...to old i thought really...but BUT thats a question i have been asked a lot lately, would i have any more??? im shocked actually by how many men around my age would like to be having babies...i know i would if the right man came along but he would have to change diapers! lol as far as him having kids from previous relationships? id welcome them with open arms as i would my own and respect any relationship they have with their mother.
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Feb 26, 2006 3:23 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
openhonest
openhonestopenhonestCanal Winchester, USA6 Threads 182 Posts
I swore I'd never date a guy with kids and I will never have any more kids of my own. But my last relationship proved me so wrong. I fell in love with all 4 of his kids. I've always been a "kid" person but sure don't have the patience I use to have. Even tho I can't have any more of my own I would, I would welcome someone elses. LOL It was nice to feel needed again.
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May 3, 2006 3:00 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Alot of men may have held out and not had any kids and now want to settle down and have an heir.
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May 3, 2006 3:00 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Alot of men may have held out and not had any kids and now want to settle down and have an heir.
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May 3, 2006 3:00 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Alot of men may have held out and not had any kids and now want to settle down and have an heir.
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May 3, 2006 3:00 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Did Ya'll get that..lol
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May 3, 2006 3:02 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
LOL...a little to much coffee already this morning Lene?
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May 3, 2006 3:05 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
True...but part of being a parent, to me anyhow, is being able to do things with your children and then grandchildren later on...
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May 3, 2006 3:14 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
I guess that would have to be a call for both to make. Some may look at it as a whole new adventure and sharing with what they could not with their other partner(s)
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May 3, 2006 3:14 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
I, like most men, want an heir to my empire! I will not, however,have a child to fulfill some expectation of a relationship!
I want to have children as the result of a quality relationship with the right girl, not as a function of building my kingdom.....!
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May 3, 2006 3:18 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
For real...You have to have a quality relationship and maybe they didn't have one before and want to share the bond of a baby.
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May 3, 2006 10:49 AM CST The Ultimate Bond?
coolguyred2006
coolguyred2006coolguyred20065 Threads 124 Posts
i love kids but if i met someone who i really liked. and they had no kids . i wouldn't mind as long as we were happy ..
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