I recommend that you take a few minutes every day to imagine having conversations with new women. It might go something like this:
"Hi there, you're cuter than the average woman that I see in the produce section... are you friendly?"
Her: "Ha ha... well, sometimes."
"So, are you shopping for a special occasion, or is this just a routine produce visit?"
Her: "No, just here for some fruit."
"Nice. Are you from the area?"
Her: "Yeah."
"Are you from here originally?"
Her: "Born and raised."
"Well, it was nice meeting you... and enjoy your mango..."
Her: "Thanks."
"Hey... do you have email?"
Her: "Yeah, I do."
Check this out... treat the "Yeah" as an agreement to give it to you, then take a pen out of your pocket and hand it to her to write down her email. As she's writing say, "and write your number there too... and your name, which I didn't get..."
The key is that you have to act LIKE THIS IS THE MOST NATURAL THING IN THE WORLD.
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What is the best way to go about getting her contact information? Do you recommend any particular way to do this?