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Mar 31, 2006 11:40 AM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
Well first off I just want to say howdy to all and I'M BACK. yeah yeah I know I wasn't gone for very long lol. Well I thought I found a wonderful guy but my gut told me he was wrong and I caught him. So oh well back to the old drawing board. I just want to know and this is for everyone to respond to. If you had suspiscions of foul play would you not look into? or just over look it? Just so yall know I'm not down and out I'm back up on my feet and out and about again.

--Mari
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Mar 31, 2006 11:46 AM CST Has to get better than this...
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
DEFINATELY go with the gut and check anyone out that you even suspect...then again, if you suspect something is off, that's probably your proof right there. Glad you are back on your feet again though, don't frown, there are lots of really nice people around. Sorry it didn't work out this time!
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Mar 31, 2006 11:48 AM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
thanks dreamer I was so hoping it was there but BAM ya know
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Mar 31, 2006 11:48 AM CST Has to get better than this...
Windygirl
WindygirlWindygirlDayton, Ohio USA21 Threads 1,846 Posts
SWEET! YOU'RE BACK!

I'm the queen of nosey. And I'm upfront about being nosey. If someone has a problem with my looking for or asking for information, they hit file 13.
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Mar 31, 2006 11:51 AM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
see well I was thinking that if your being nosey then your untrusting well of course he already threw that word at me but when there are signs and signals how can we not be nosey ya know
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Mar 31, 2006 11:51 AM CST Has to get better than this...
hey mari!!!!

isn't it nice you will always have your sistah's to back you up!!


come to amsterdam! there are some hotties here girl!!!!
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Mar 31, 2006 11:52 AM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
woo hooo lmao would love to I need a change of scenery lmao how the heck are you DOC HUGGSS!!!!


--Mari
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Mar 31, 2006 11:54 AM CST Has to get better than this...
doin good , workin it...

need a house sitter for 2 weeks wanna?????????? o please say yes!
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Mar 31, 2006 11:56 AM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
lmfao lemme go pick a couple thousand from my money tree out back and I will be right over lmao. hehehehe oh yeah do I need to bring warm clothing?!?!? hehehe
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Mar 31, 2006 12:02 PM CST Has to get better than this...
no way a ticket now is about 500 bucks and the weather is gorgeous !!!!
spring has sprung and you have free room and board and a full fridge...what more do you need?
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Mar 31, 2006 12:03 PM CST Has to get better than this...
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
I've never been involved with a woman that I would suspect of foul play. Probably because I'm not likely to be attracted to such a woman in the first place.

Also, whenever I'm in a relationship we are such close best friends and we spend so much time together that there really isn't time for any foul play to happen anyway. So it's never been an issue for me and isn't likely to ever be an issue.

My biggest problem has always been trying to locate a woman who's genuinely interested in having a close best-friends meaningful relationship. Most seem to be more interested in hooking up with more illusive non-stable men. That's not a complaint or judgment by the way. Just an observation.

Also, I'm not the least bit concerned about a woman checking me out, before we meet, or even asking questions after we're together. I never have anything to hide, unless it's a surprise party or something like that. I think if a woman was constantly suspicious for no apparent reason though it might begin to hurt me that she knows me so little. Any suspicions would necessarily need to be of her own making because I'm completely monogamous-minded by nature. It's just not in my making to cheat, lie, or misrepresent things for personal gain. I'm just not like that and if she really knows me she'd know that. I'm defintely partner-oriented.
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Mar 31, 2006 12:05 PM CST Has to get better than this...
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
wb sweeheart missed your humor sorry you got hurt but het you live and learn right
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Mar 31, 2006 12:14 PM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
ty ty yes you are right
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Mar 31, 2006 7:37 PM CST Has to get better than this...
greywolf65
greywolf65greywolf65edmonton, Alberta Canada1 Threads 24 Posts
hello you know yourself better than anybody, always trust your gut , if you feel something wrong or feel "the red flags " you are wise to stop look and listen , dont give up , as you seem to know that you are worth more than that and never settle for less ! there is someone out there that will treat you right and not lift his leg to piss lol,hope you have better luck in your search , be strong and true , take care ....greywolf
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Mar 31, 2006 9:36 PM CST Has to get better than this...
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
thanks alot greywolf I appreciate that. Not gonna give up. Just gives me that much more of an incentive to keep a good look out on things like that ya know ;-)

--Mari
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Mar 31, 2006 11:29 PM CST Has to get better than this...
greywolf65
greywolf65greywolf65edmonton, Alberta Canada1 Threads 24 Posts
hi you are quite welcome , just keep your eyes open and know what you want and dont settle for less , alittle of something seems better than nothing but in reality if it is wrong you still end up with nothing, as a very wise woman told my daughter treat yourself as a gift and dont be just giving yourself away to anybody that does not deserve you just be true to yourself , its better to be alone than lonely with the wrong man , you are your best company ! the wise woman that i speak of took me alot of time to find but we are happy in love now , so there is and always will be hope for you ,ok take care be strong and true! greywolf .. rob
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Mar 31, 2006 11:44 PM CST Has to get better than this...
pisquina
pisquinapisquinaNY, New York USA3 Posts
Of course go nosey if something doesnt smell right! who wants to spend time on someone you arent sure u should be doing so? Information is important and communication is everything...If I doubt, I ask...If i dont seem to have a reasonable explanation...I try to find out if there's anything wrong, but I always try to think positively..It does hurt to be let down though but at the end I just thank God I got it out of my back!(not literally,hehehe)...there is so much more coming and you know that!
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