Went on a date last nite. It started to be a nice evening. Saw an early movie and went for a nice meal with the plan of dancing after. But at some point the nice conversation turned into her time to rant. 45 minutes of all the jerks in her past and how sorry all men are and then came the statement. Why can't I find a man to make me happy! And there it was...... her problem!
I've found in my time on this Earth a few facts you can't change. Like... no one can make you happy! Happiness is a state of mind that comes from within. And until you find that in yourself you won't be happy! Some will never be happy because they can't get out of there on way. And if you look to me for your happiness, it aint happening sister.
Needless to say but I told her at the end of our meal it wasn't going to work, thanked her for her time and took her home. But now I'm the jerk. What do you all think, are my actions wrong?
The_Kansan: Actions? Nope. Methods? Well, I wasn't there to hear how you stated your position, or she hers, so I'll pass on passing judgement...
Well, I tried to be nice. Just told her I felt we were just not on the same page and I didn't want to let her think otherwise. And all hell broke loose.
bamabulldog08: Well, I tried to be nice. Just told her I felt we were just not on the same page and I didn't want to let her think otherwise. And all hell broke loose.
Sounds like you handled the situation like a gentleman. You would have nothing but problems & heartache with such an unhappy woman.
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Went on a date last nite. It started to be a nice evening. Saw an early movie and went for a nice meal with the plan of dancing after.
But at some point the nice conversation turned into her time to rant. 45 minutes of all the jerks in her past and how sorry all men are and then came the statement. Why can't I find a man to make me happy! And there it was...... her problem!
I've found in my time on this Earth a few facts you can't change. Like... no one can make you happy! Happiness is a state of mind that comes from within. And until you find that in yourself you won't be happy! Some will never be happy because they can't get out of there on way. And if you look to me for your happiness, it aint happening sister.
Needless to say but I told her at the end of our meal it wasn't going to work, thanked her for her time and took her home. But now I'm the jerk. What do you all think, are my actions wrong?