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Feb 23, 2008 5:08 AM CST happiness.... don't worry be happy
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
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Went on a date last nite. It started to be a nice evening. Saw an early movie and went for a nice meal with the plan of dancing after.
But at some point the nice conversation turned into her time to rant. 45 minutes of all the jerks in her past and how sorry all men are and then came the statement. Why can't I find a man to make me happy! And there it was...... her problem!

I've found in my time on this Earth a few facts you can't change. Like... no one can make you happy! Happiness is a state of mind that comes from within. And until you find that in yourself you won't be happy! Some will never be happy because they can't get out of there on way. And if you look to me for your happiness, it aint happening sister.

Needless to say but I told her at the end of our meal it wasn't going to work, thanked her for her time and took her home. But now I'm the jerk. What do you all think, are my actions wrong?frustrated
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Feb 23, 2008 5:31 AM CST happiness.... don't worry be happy
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
Actions? Nope. Methods? Well, I wasn't there to hear how you stated your position, or she hers, so I'll pass on passing judgement...
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Feb 23, 2008 5:40 AM CST happiness.... don't worry be happy
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
The_Kansan: Actions? Nope. Methods? Well, I wasn't there to hear how you stated your position, or she hers, so I'll pass on passing judgement...


Well, I tried to be nice. Just told her I felt we were just not on the same page and I didn't want to let her think otherwise. And all hell broke loose.
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Feb 23, 2008 5:59 AM CST happiness.... don't worry be happy
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
bamabulldog08: Well, I tried to be nice. Just told her I felt we were just not on the same page and I didn't want to let her think otherwise. And all hell broke loose.
Sounds like you handled the situation
like a gentleman. You would have nothing but problems & heartache with such an unhappy woman. thumbs up
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Feb 23, 2008 6:04 AM CST happiness.... don't worry be happy
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Obviously she has unresolved issues that no one else can sort out for her. You did the right thing. Dont let it deter you in your search.

For every pot there is a lid.
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Feb 23, 2008 6:07 AM CST happiness.... don't worry be happy
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
Scottishlass: Sounds like you handled the situation
like a gentleman. You would have nothing but problems & heartache with such an unhappy woman.


this lady was a model for 6 yaers and hot in the looks department. in my youth I spent 2 long years with one because she was so fine and great in bed.

BUT THANK GOD I GREW UP AND FOUND OUT THERES SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE!zyay yay
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