princess49503: what if it was the other way around? My ex gained 200 pounds during our relationship? Even his boss told him to get help. They were worried about him dying on the job
If they're health is in danger, by all means get them help, but don't dangle a marraige in front of them to get your way. If it's an issue where they won't help themselves then there's something else going on with them that will most likely become an issue in your marraige. In that case it's not just about the weight.
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If they're health is in danger, by all means get them help, but don't dangle a marraige in front of them to get your way. If it's an issue where they won't help themselves then there's something else going on with them that will most likely become an issue in your marraige. In that case it's not just about the weight.