loverboy690: well thats all I have is love,honesty and caring.No money to throw around these days but yes I am looking to get to know people first.and thanks
YOU'RE WELCOME. ONLY LOOKING OUT FOR THE GOOD GUYS.
In response to: Why do I always find women that take atvantage of me and then break my heart?I;ll never know I guess
Just wanted to stop by and tell you something that someone wise told me, I have been where you are and have had it happen to me and learned a valuable lesson by it. So here is the advice... Make them Earn your trust, Don't just give it so freely, and trust me (Smiles, I know it is a pun), It is hard to do when you have a trusting nature, but you will be thankful in the long run.
It is ok to be who you are, and you will eventually find who you are supposed to be with, aka:your needle in a haystack. But you just need to be patient and try dating someone that is differn't from the woman you usually would date and you might find your not repeating the same patterns, or picking the same type of woman, if you can understand what I mean. Hope this helps...
moonlove73: Just wanted to stop by and tell you something that someone wise told me, I have been where you are and have had it happen to me and learned a valuable lesson by it. So here is the advice... Make them Earn your trust, Don't just give it so freely, and trust me (Smiles, I know it is a pun), It is hard to do when you have a trusting nature, but you will be thankful in the long run.
It is ok to be who you are, and you will eventually find who you are supposed to be with, aka:your needle in a haystack. But you just need to be patient and try dating someone that is differn't from the woman you usually would date and you might find your not repeating the same patterns, or picking the same type of woman, if you can understand what I mean. Hope this helps...
When you make some one earn your trust. They will vaule you more as a whole person. But on the same token you must give them something for you to trust them on.
speedyhink: When you make some one earn your trust. They will vaule you more as a whole person. But on the same token you must give them something for you to trust them on.
Well that is what I mean, by it is ok to be who you are, you just have to be more careful, not to give the trust all at once, and I agree you have to give of yourself, but just that, of yourself as a person nothing else, to ensure you are excepted for you are and not what you have, or could have. Their are alot of Good people out here, who have good intentions, a few bad apples don't spoil the bunch..Smiles...
moonlove73: Well that is what I mean, by it is ok to be who you are, you just have to be more careful, not to give the trust all at once, and I agree you have to give of yourself, but just that, of yourself as a person nothing else, to ensure you are excepted for you are and not what you have, or could have. Their are alot of Good people out here, who have good intentions, a few bad apples don't spoil the bunch..Smiles...
I am that way I have already went through that that's why I am here to make friends,date and see where it leads to.
loverboy690: I am that way I have already went through that that's why I am here to make friends,date and see where it leads to.
I am sure, You will find what you seek, Smiles... Just be patient and Enjoy the forums, I have found that they are the best place to meet people and make friends. It may take time, but finding the right person is worth waiting for..
moonlove73: I am sure, You will find what you seek, Smiles... Just be patient and Enjoy the forums, I have found that they are the best place to meet people and make friends. It may take time, but finding the right person is worth waiting for..
Btw Nice to meet you
I know I will find her someday and you will find the one for you aswell.
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