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Jun 14, 2008 8:06 AM CST was wondering......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
I have been a member for less than a year, i came on as a single and am now semi involved, what i mean is i met somebody, no not on this site but that would not matter in this sit. I have heard it asked, why do people come on here if they are not single? well i am one of those ones that needs to answer. Since this is online there are no guarantees with online relationships and when somebody meets somebody and they want to start a relationship where does that leave one? well inbetween committed and not committed, to certain points. In the meantime i am not giving up my friends and i see others doing the same, comming here after being either semi involved or even married, would miss out on good friends, like i said online is not in cement you know? what is your take on this?
Jun 14, 2008 8:07 AM CST was wondering......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
Oh and Marty, this will be the last thread todaywink laugh
Jun 14, 2008 9:25 AM CST was wondering......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
sometimes a comment comes up like the one posted about but nobody wants to discuss it just comment on it, maybe it isn't a big deal after allprofessor
Jun 25, 2008 4:47 PM CST was wondering......
damo1
damo1damo1Limerick, Ireland2 Threads 14 Posts
irishlass45: I have been a member for less than a year, i came on as a single and am now semi involved, what i mean is i met somebody, no not on this site but that would not matter in this sit. I have heard it asked, why do people come on here if they are not single? well i am one of those ones that needs to answer. Since this is online there are no guarantees with online relationships and when somebody meets somebody and they want to start a relationship where does that leave one? well inbetween committed and not committed, to certain points. In the meantime i am not giving up my friends and i see others doing the same, comming here after being either semi involved or even married, would miss out on good friends, like i said online is not in cement you know? what is your take on this?


Just wondering would you tell the person you are online
Jun 25, 2008 5:03 PM CST was wondering......
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
irishlass45: I have been a member for less than a year, i came on as a single and am now semi involved, what i mean is i met somebody, no not on this site but that would not matter in this sit. I have heard it asked, why do people come on here if they are not single? well i am one of those ones that needs to answer. Since this is online there are no guarantees with online relationships and when somebody meets somebody and they want to start a relationship where does that leave one? well inbetween committed and not committed, to certain points. In the meantime i am not giving up my friends and i see others doing the same, comming here after being either semi involved or even married, would miss out on good friends, like i said online is not in cement you know? what is your take on this?


each one knows what feelings he/she has for the partner they meet on line
both knows what are your real life

i dont see any reazon that becuase some one is e-engaged he/she cannot stay here

i know a "couple" (from othe site) they have been e-engaged for hald an year, and they got e-married a few weeks ago

but to my surpeice, she is in this site loking, she has an active profile here

should it be called e-cheating?

whle people in our eage sometings are not so important, we have to consider what could happen with people in their 20-30
what if after they get e-married, she gets e-pregnant?
and what will happen to the e-baby if later the e-dad decide to do his life with a real women
where wil they get the e-divorce? and the e-childsupport?

but if some one is in real life incvolved and had made friends here, i belive he/she can continue in contact with their friends by regular e-mail
and if there is not enought trust as to disclos the regular e-mail, then thei are not real friends, just e-friends where they don trust each other
Jun 26, 2008 8:57 PM CST was wondering......
blarney_army
blarney_armyblarney_armyBallina, Mayo Ireland6 Threads 93 Posts
irishlass45: I have been a member for less than a year, i came on as a single and am now semi involved, what i mean is i met somebody, no not on this site but that would not matter in this sit. I have heard it asked, why do people come on here if they are not single? well i am one of those ones that needs to answer. Since this is online there are no guarantees with online relationships and when somebody meets somebody and they want to start a relationship where does that leave one? well inbetween committed and not committed, to certain points. In the meantime i am not giving up my friends and i see others doing the same, comming here after being either semi involved or even married, would miss out on good friends, like i said online is not in cement you know? what is your take on this?


R count you as a friend so hug
Jun 26, 2008 9:05 PM CST was wondering......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
damo1: Just wondering would you tell the person you are online


He knows i am online and is always free to look at my post, he does by the way on a regular basis, i have nothing to hide nor lie about.Keep it real and it stays simple.
Jun 26, 2008 9:07 PM CST was wondering......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
blarney_army: R count you as a friend so


You are sweet mr.P, and i count you as a friend of mine know thathug
Jun 26, 2008 9:12 PM CST was wondering......
blarney_army
blarney_armyblarney_armyBallina, Mayo Ireland6 Threads 93 Posts
be good
irishlass45: You are sweet mr.P, and i count you as a friend of mine know that
Jun 26, 2008 9:47 PM CST was wondering......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
blarney_army: be good


the only time i am not good is when i get riled and that takes a lot to dolaugh tongue hug
Jul 17, 2008 6:25 AM CST was wondering......
ilikestuff
ilikestuffilikestuffall over the place, Meath Ireland2 Posts
e-babies............
Aug 18, 2008 10:10 PM CST was wondering......
forrest_grump
forrest_grumpforrest_grumpletterkenny, Donegal Ireland1 Posts
22 year relationship and now know what you mean
no harm in chatting or leaving messages
take it from there I suppose
Might be a new life beginning...... maybe not,,,,,, who knows?
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