40 but feeling 20 ( Archived) (4)

this is it when i get up every morning all i no is im alive.i dont say wow im 40 or what ever or feel like im older .so why is it that now that im alone without a partner i feel like what do i do now .what im trying to say is i always liked a certing kind of girl and thay fall between 18-30 some times i see a older women that i turns me on but for the most part not.anyway now that im looking i feel like something is wrong i should be looking fo a girl my age .(but i feel 20)and just love to be with some onme with alot of spunk to them.and it seems older women just want to relax and do gradma things .oh well i hope i find the right one soon befor im 60 hahahahah: peace: joe

Let me see - I am older than u (which makes me an older woman) I am not sure what grandma things are but if they are biking, swimming, going out for drinks and dinners with friends, and just plain enjoying life --- yep thats me -------------and actually feel I have quite a bit of spunk left in me --- and I do know that there are plenty like me out there ----
but hey good luck on your search because when those 18 -30 get the baby urge ---- there goes the spunk

Grandma things????????? OMG - you have to be joking!!!

You may feel like your 20 .... but the reality is that your not! I believe its true that younger people have alot of spunk and energy but I think that you also need to maybe think about the maturity level. Most 18 yr olds probably not going to be looking for a long term relationship ..... I'm not entirely sure what you are looking for but I would probably hazard a guess that you are feeling like its time to maybe start looking for something a little more serious. I think someone in their mid-twenties and up would probably be a better choice.

Yeah people can yell and scream at me that they are mature .... but I have a 17 yr old daughter ..... and I know plenty of younger kids in the same age range and the majority of them are just looking for fun and not taking a long range view of their life.

Anyways good luck ... and I guess now I'll have to think about taking some knitting classes or maybe some crocheting so I make make some granny squares.