Sure signs it's not working ( Archived) (4)

We all know the signs. We haven't talked to him/her in 4 days. You blow him/her off or vice versa and lie about why. He/She doesn't come over as much, or is acting annoyed when they are there.

The real brutal one is evidence that they are spending time with someone else. That particular type of evidence can seem subtle, but if it's there, it's usually there...

My question is, if the smaller things are happening, like she seems to be losing interest at times, and at other times very attracted to you. You realize you haven't text her in 3 days and vice versa... She is giving you one word answers to heart felt questions. Your talking to other girls...

If you still like this person but drifting apart, how do you know if it's worth trying to salvage. What can be done to find out if she wants to salvage it? What happens when she is gone and you end up missing her drastically and then she starts calling you for minor reasons. Basically... Is the On and Off thing always a dead end to disaster or can it be the beginning of a real connection?

Just come out and ask her!
Ide say its all over red rover from what you state
on your thread!

i think its time to ramble on again, nothing sounds positive. its suppose to get better and want to see each other more, and if she comes around on payday, bored, and using you when she,s lonely drop her like a hot potatoe.