Actually, it's over when I don't think about him with sadness or bitterness or any real emotion other than the basic memory anymore. And when I can go on doing my things without a thought of anyone else's life interferring with my own. It doesn't take some earth-rending mind shattering moment. Or even any real closure. As those things are rarely useful. It's only closure when I stop thinking. Sadly, there's no time limit to a proper end of anything.
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long before the spit..
a thousand clues
ignored...
i find it best to be thankful
and move on...
life is good
and there are more than
a few good folks out there...