should I stay or should I go ( Archived) (13)

Don't take this the wrong way, but if you are in a relationship already but are looking for friendship outside your current relationship, maybe you should rethink your relationship. I'm here because I am looking for someone so I don't HAVE to be here. When I find that one person, I won't have any need to be here because I will have found my friend AND lover. Does that make sense?

By the way, that's just my opinion.

Good opinion!!! I feel the same.

thanks, we can look at this as a good thing or a bad thing and that is we are all feeling the pinch. So we are not alone

hmmmmmmm some do not read profiles.
when I took a look at mine it did not seem to me that I am looking for someone

Its all good the MN. forum sucks anyways

As Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's fictional detective, Sherlock Holms, would say, "It's elementary my dear Watson!". Your profile is hidden. A lady friend of mine, that I really admire, once said that when a man does it, or doesn't post his picture, he's hiding from his wife.

Most people coming to "Connecting Singels" are here looking for mates. There is another site called "Friend Finder", where dating isn't the focus. While we can't see your profile, you say it says you are not looking for someone. If you are not looking for someone, one has to ask, why are you here on a dating site and why is your profile hidden? This is why I posted my comment to your poll. Now I could go into greater detail but what would that solve?

My post was only in response to someone who sounded like they were wrestling with their conscience. Maybe you had another reason for creating your poll? Maybe you'd care to share that and we can try to help you if we know more details.

I certainly meant no ill will, I was only trying to help. By the way, I voted no, you shouldn't go. But that's just me because I believe that what goes around comes around, and usually with greater force. It's called karma. I assume you're of adult age, what you do is your business. As the Wiccan's say, "Do as you please, but harm no one."

you should control the time......it means you sould control how long you should get on line to chat... and others... you should concentrated on find a new job though

stupid thought came out .....

You can stay. A lot of people are just bored and are looking for something to do. You might disappoint a person or two but most of us are use to disappointment.