the greatest love is to be able to admit true when others say self does/did not love...
a drug smuggler can admit his deeds are not love, but one that is a self professed lover, will deny all environmental feedback that says itself did/does not love, because it only wishes to prove to itself it loves properly.
if one cares about another, why would it not want to hear how itself failed in loving them.
so, seeing no happening to self as either negative or positive, but rather what "god" hath made to happen to you, to teach you about loving others MORE THAN, ONESELF.
which of course, one cannot create in itself divine love, but rather only admit each time it's own brain says self does not have it, each minute of the day as one walks thru situations, then, when self KNOWS it CANNOT EVER CREATE DIVINE IN ITSELF, DIVINE LOVE BE GIVEN...
RE: Love Does Not Fail
the greatest love is to be able to admit true when others say self does/did not love...a drug smuggler can admit his deeds are not love, but one that is a self professed lover, will deny all environmental feedback that says itself did/does not love, because it only wishes to prove to itself it loves properly.
if one cares about another, why would it not want to hear how itself failed in loving them.