21. Are you in the right relationship, with a good lover, but you are the one messing it up? Is it clear that you are causing your lover pain and you pose a threat to the relationship unless you turn from your damaging ways?
A relationship is something we willfully choose to enter in and choose to stay. That choice affects every aspect of our lives. That choice is a good choice if we can give many good reasons as to why we stay in that relationship; and the best reason is love- because we love and are loved!
Thank you, what most people do is to find someone to blame for their unfortunate lives forgetting that casting of blames won't change the situation.
It is like a man who owns an aircraft, praying to God for more, whereas, a man who owns an expensive car, praying to be like the aircraft owner, then the man on bike is praying to God to change his life to that of the car owner, then a bicycle owner crying to have the life of the bike owner, and someone walking on foot asking God to provide him a bicycle, then the man without slippers want slippers, and the disabled man by the road side asking God for legs...
we can't make everything happen, we have to do with what we have and still be happy.. Happiness is the root of it all, the moment we allow our problem to engulf us, block the light, we are doomed. the push is gone.
Why are you still in that relationship?
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