Eni, you're right. I really don't have an interest in the kid at this time. I have not met her and I have a 6 year old grandson, I couldn't imagine going down that road again. I guess this really helped. Time to end this before it goes any further.
I agree with you Molly. I just don't see my feelings changing about the kid situation. I've been there and done that, have no interest in going through all that again. However I have not met the kid so I don't know if my feelings would change after I met her.
MH, I prefer older men too. I was set up by a friend and only agreed because I gave my word that I would go on the date. Then we hit it off, so I went out again and then again. So it's been 3 times and I find myself wanting to part company. Not sure if I'm using the "kid" as an excuse and I'm not really ready to be in a relationship...more food for thought, I guess.
MH, yes, I didn't find that out until we were out for the second time. I was set up by a friend who thought we were only 8 years apart! When I found out it was 12, I tried breaking it off then, but he convinced me it wasn't a big deal.
yes it's all true, except the big a**! I have 4 so I have even less time for a man who wants to control a woman's passions and dream but most of all her time!
Burning Bridges
That's awesome guys...carry on!