Whell, I don't see only "black or white", there are good "gray tones", but there are some rules "there are order in chaos", I only use those rules not or rejecting some good ladies, but knowing what I should expect in future.
I have an example of failure in my parent's family: They were not compatible at all according Astrology, and me with my brother were not compatible at all, he was older and stronger, so I suffered, we all were not compatible. So I don't want to do the same mistake, I've suffered enough in my life.
Sometimes it is better to wait for that Mr. or Mrs. Right.
I can't find that Mrs. Right because I know exactly what I am looking for. You see: I was born on Dog's year, so I am looking for a lady who was born on Tiger's or Horse's year. My Star Sign according, Astrology is Taurus, so the lady should be born under Virgo or Capricorn Star Sign. (Even the day, that the lady was born matters.) Also our name's and father's names should be compatible. I also prefer Chinese ladies.
The more you know the more difficult it becomes to find that Mrs. or Mr. Right.
Of course, we should pray in Jesus name. I found this prayer in the internet many years ago, I didn't want to modify it.
I have prayed it many years, but nothing's changed. But now I have remembered words, that my grandma told me: "Where two or three are paying together, there am I in the midst of them". I searched the internet. and found the place in the Holy Bible.
And I thought, that some of the people are also looking for the same things in this site (soulmate), so I asked you to pray with me together.
"It is impossible for men, but not for God: everything is possible for God" (Mk 10, 17–27)
For me God is more than real - it is part of my life (very important part). I don't argue with people who don't believe it, because God gave a free will to all the humanity. But I believe, that a person should be called to believe in God by himself. As the local priest told in a homily during a Mass:(...)"God finds a separate path to each person’s heart"(...), but first of all a person should be invited to search for Him. And believe me my fiend, when you will find Him - you won't be able to doubt of His existing. I am talking about it, because I have some personal experience: I have saw His might, a very frightening might. It is a long story, but in the end God showed me his grace. It is not just my personal path, but it also comes from my ancestors, of course I didn't knew that when I was searching for Him. I went through a long and dangerous way, but I felt a helping hand. I suppose - I had to walk my path - to be where I am now. I believe every one has to walk his/her path through a life. A question is: Where does it lead at the end, if there's no God?..
A creative interpretation of the Church that I am singing in.
Thank you