This is to "axelsdad" considering he was found not guilty on the 2nd charge and the first person,whom he settled out of court with has decided to come out and say it was never true,it was all his fathers idea. It takes morons like you to judge people and end their carreer,anything to bring someone down.
RE: At what point is it acceptable...
First you must learn to love yourself,then you'll know what you want from someone and what you have to offer.