I am not in dream interpretations but it might be that you have a need waiting to be fulfilled. Do u wish to be the centre of someone's life such that nothing works without u and everything works when ur around? If so, that might be a strong criteria to use when you meet the next woman...: ) All the very best.
It's only a gamble if you don't know what your looking for and how to find it. I felt like this for a long time. I don't anymore. You'll find the right person for you because ur searching and not settling. Look around you and you'll find others in the same boat...; ).
I have found and this may be the case of a person's chronological age almost never matching their psychological age. Personally, I have met older men who are psychologically immature and younger men who are very mature. So...this might shed some light on this phenomenon even if it cannot explain all cases. Hope this helps.
RE: IF YOU SEE ME
Really true. Loved it. Thank you.