Marriage, like any other contract requires a Meeting Of The Minds. If you really agree on how your marriage will be and are willing to do what it takes to preserve it, it can work. Otherwise, live on your own. You'll have fewer regrets when and if you part later. In short, YES!!!!! I believe in marriage but only the parties to that marriage should define what it means to them.
Hey, NSA isn't all that but I know a couple who ended up in a 30+year relationship from NSA... Funny how sometimes attachments occur. Enjoy what you can but don't lament what you can't!
..now go and BE HAPPY!!! Remember how you feel today so that you can renew it on the tough days when you don't....They'll freshen right up if you let them!! Enjoy your blessing.
There was another guy who made a good point;BE CLEAR IN YOUR PROFILE THAT YOU'RE STRAIGHT. Don't say ANYTHING ambiguous unless you're at least a little curious. Enjoy at least that you're getting some fairly broad attention.
RE: What am I smiling about?
VERY cool!!!