I am 18, soon to be 19 and this summer, just after my graduation, i lost my stepfather to esophageal cancer. It is one of the hardest things i have ever gone through and i am so young. Cancer is not fun, and i can honestly say that it is the only thing i HATE with unbridled passion.
I hope your dad gets well. I will be praying for your whole family. Message me if you have any questions.
RE: so Do I look old
you definately do NOT look old, sir. :)