Very sad and at the moment you may feel very rejected if he is the one to have walked away which seems to be. So you feel there must be something wrong with you as otherwise he would still be yours. However this is most likely not the case at all, people can fall in love and fall out of love, we have no real control over that. It happens and once it does then whatever is said or pointed out will not be able to turn that fallen out love back. It is gone!
You must now look at yourself and accept you have not changed, but he has without a doubt. Try to recall the things about him that used to irretate you, recall his bad points, we all have them. Realise that he was not as perfect as you first thought. There is a future without a doubt, a good future for you.
Time is the greatest healer of all, think of the mothers and afthers who have lost their son or daughter in a conflict, killed by a bullet for whatever. This occured for many thousands of people in years gone by and still the parents lived on and eventually the pain eased.
Your pain will ease much quicker and what will you have lost. A man you thought was everything in the world and he proved he is not worth it. So, really you have lost nothing that cannot in time be replaced with no doubt a person that deserves you.
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RE: how 2 get over a break up
Very sad and at the moment you may feel very rejected if he is the one to have walked away which seems to be. So you feel there must be something wrong with you as otherwise he would still be yours. However this is most likely not the case at all, people can fall in love and fall out of love, we have no real control over that. It happens and once it does then whatever is said or pointed out will not be able to turn that fallen out love back. It is gone!You must now look at yourself and accept you have not changed, but he has without a doubt. Try to recall the things about him that used to irretate you, recall his bad points, we all have them. Realise that he was not as perfect as you first thought. There is a future without a doubt, a good future for you.
Time is the greatest healer of all, think of the mothers and afthers who have lost their son or daughter in a conflict, killed by a bullet for whatever. This occured for many thousands of people in years gone by and still the parents lived on and eventually the pain eased.
Your pain will ease much quicker and what will you have lost. A man you thought was everything in the world and he proved he is not worth it. So, really you have lost nothing that cannot in time be replaced with no doubt a person that deserves you.
Chin up now and smile.