Did I say that all men were violent? Did I not only mention that violence is probable, not definite, in such a scenario? Who in their right mind does not realise that this already abusive (refer to the part about him taking liberties with her pay) situation is LIKELY to end with some sort of violence, be it verbal, psychological or emotional?! Seriously, don't come here lecturing me on your presumptions because your male ego feels bruised for some reason. I don't have the time for it so stick to advising the victim crying for help, not me!!!
You seriously need to reconsider the reasons you find this man attractive. What is it you love about, what seems like, an abusive man? You are too young to be caught up in such a ghastly lifestyle; actually, no one should live like that. Where is your daughter and is this man the father?
You lost me with the milk and mourning but I suggest you contact your social services there and they'll point you in the right direction regarding whom to talk to about lease agreements and such. However, if I were you, I would immediately find refuge with a friend or family member to prevent this already ugly situation from escalating into something violent.
RE: What are you bringing to the table in a new relationship?
As long as it isn't herpes, man!