only you can decide really how you wish to move forward.
without knowing either of you fully and only one side to the story.
sounds like he only wants friendship though and if you can't overcome your feelings for him and move on you'll be miserable surely?
Maybe if you stopped seeing him for a while, give him a chance to evaluate life without you and for you to have time to try and make your decision as to whether you can just be friends??
I hope you do manage to work it out one way or another though
No I think trust is the most important thing in a relationship, if I had reason to be suspisious I would just ask about it before jumping to extreme conclusions... but I tend to trust my partner unless I'm proven a fool too.
I'd say normally the people that go out spying, and are overly distrusting are normally the people that have something to hide themselves.
I think if someone was spying on me, I'd feel betrayed and I'd know that regardless the relationship would be over, cause the trust would have obviously gone from their side... and I wouldn't be trusting them not to spy on me again... just not healthy at all...
I don't think my family or friends would even think about it, so there wouldn't be that need to be supportive (if that makes sense) As long as that person made me happy and was a good person
But I'd do my own thing regardless of their opinion.
I think that everyone gets hurt when a long standing relationship ends... both male and female. Perhaps the 'hard wired' men that you seem to know... either hide there 'damage' better, save it to screw up the next relationship, or weren't that bothered about the person.
I don't know about the chat friendships... ?? I suppose it depends how long you've been talking and how much of your true self you've given ?
isn't that a diffent question/view all together? someone that gets pregnant on purpose to try and manipulate a man to stay in a relationship. And a single unworking mother. to different variants there.
RE: Randomly Post Anything That's On Your Mind.....
it's oh so quiet...