Well, after reading all your replies I come to a conclusion that it is not as black and white as I thought... Maybe I should not be so strict with the separated singles then...>
Yes, yes... You are right! I may have a problem with the 'separated' men...8 years in a relationship with a guy suffering from uncurable commitmentphobia. The kids are grown up, and married already. I am just afraid of going the same route...
Yes, you are right...It is all about judgment. I understand from the other posts that finalizing separation depends on many cicumstances. Lack of money for could be acceptable. But I doubt other reasons...
I am very uncomfortable when I am contacted by a man who says he's saparated. I don't know how serious is the 'separation' and if he is actually doing anything to change the status. One saparation is not equal to other...It is difficult!
Do you consider a 'separated' man a single or not? Is he available emotionally to build a new relationship when his marriage has no final closure? For me he is still attached and will not be able to commit?
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But I am new and LEARNING!
Separated: single or not?
Well, after reading all your replies I come to a conclusion that it is not as black and white as I thought... Maybe I should not be so strict with the separated singles then...>