livinlovnlafin Forum Posts (3)

RE: Is it as hard for a lady that smokes to find a date as it is for a man that smokes?

@GoTrance: yes I know but you are right I did not take it that way, but as I said I know I smoke becuase it relaxes me. Nicotine is a psychological addictive (google it). It is far better than using drugs. I surrender did not think I would be seeming to defend smoking lol.

RE: Is it as hard for a lady that smokes to find a date as it is for a man that smokes?

@ Gotrance: without getting in to a debate on needing or not needing a drug to relax, there are so many things out there that could be your drug to relax. Everyone has a "drug", maybe I think instead of calling it a drug which I get it, you could also use it as a "form" to relax. Therefore your form to relax is something you might enjoy, maybe a good massage or reading a good book, taking a walk.....I think you get my point. Believe me I understand smoking is not good for you, I agree it is now more than ever socially unacceptable.

RE: Is it as hard for a lady that smokes to find a date as it is for a man that smokes?

Yes I believe it is. I know most of the people I have gone out with do not like it but they want to meet anyway and at the end of the day it is an issue. I personally would like to meet someone who smokes or someone who will encourage me to quit as I know it would be the best thing to quit smoking. I think if I met the right person who motivated me I would be very open to quiting but in the meantime I find it relaxing and since I am not in a relationship at the moment it satisfies me.