syco_chic81 Forum Posts (2)

Calling all Mainers...

Is there actually anyone on here from Maine? I really could use some new friends to talk to... So what are all of you Mainiacs up to?

Baffled Beyond Belief

Ok... So I recently got out of a bad longterm relationship about 5 months ago. I knew it had been coming for a while and was pretty ok with trying to move on after about 2 months... So I joined this site. I figured it would be as good a way as any to meet new people.
I messaged a few guys and chatted back n forth with one or two... But one guy seemed to really be interested in getting to know me better. He asked me out on a date and I accepted. Things were hard for him due to losing his job so it was my treat. We went to the movies and had dinner... Things went great! He was so kind and funny. We started hanging out and texting each other a lot from there on. He actually texted me almost every morning saying "Good Morning Beautiful". He told me I made him happier than he'd been in years and that he loved talking to me and being around me and all these other amazing no way things. I was kind of in awe because this is not the kind of guy I'm used to. But I was really starting to like him a lot so we hung out quite a bit. He asked me to come over most times too. I was never pushy because I was afraid to ruin a good thing. After the course of this going on for about a month he even had me stay the night at his house a few times... AND NO NOTHING HAPPENED... Which to be honest, frustrated me a little after the obviously more than just being friendly vibes that were going on with us ... I mean heck, a girl has needs too... But anyways... whatever right? I figured the guy needed his time to make his move or whatever. Anyways we still saw each other for another couple of weeks...
Now this is where I get baffled beyond belief...
We hung out one day, I didn't see him for another day or so, then he stopped by with my movies I left at his house and asked for his short stories he wrote back from me... I thought it kind of odd; BUT he still gave me a hug and said talk to you later...
BUT THAT'S THE LAST I'VE HEARD FROM HIM!!! He has ignored all of my attempts of communicating with him... I dont understand it at all... He even snuck over in the night to drop of my cd's I left at his house but still won't answer me... All I want at this point is a reason as to why he'd just stop talking to me without an explination... He could have just told me he didn't want to talk to me anymore; I AM an adult. I can take rejection and whatever else he could have said to me... BUT THE NOT SAYING ANYTHING IS JUST PLAIN IGNORANT!!! I think I deserved the respect of at least a Piss Off!!! I could've taken that better than I take the ignoring of my attempts to find out if it was something I did or was he just not ready to move forward with me...
But anyways; I guess I'll take it as a hint that I'm not meant to find someone I can grow old with.
But that doesn't mean I won't let myself be happy ALONE!!!