In some countries I would be called a gypsy, or a vagabond, but that does not bother me, because I love it. But when they loose power they call me to come and repair it where ever I am at. So I do enjoy the travel and sights.
I might be old but now I am filling up with joy and laughter, I just needed a jumpstart, or a swift kick to get me going again, and you done that part. Now to enjoy the ride.
I have an income, an auto, but we vary because I live in a camper and travel to different areas of the country. With the type of work I do, if it was not for me and my work you would not have electricity, to be on the computer, or run your home unless you go back to the old ways. As for me I love my work and keep the country with power, I enjoy my travels and I meet many different people. This is what I enjoy. Not like the ones I know complain they can not do or go where I go. Sometimes just a walk around the park, and smell the flowers is enough for me then I am back.
I was not just talking about women, men are the same way. Some would love to live the way I do, but then they are scared to try. They go out for a weekend, but stay in motels. They do not even get out to see what there are to see, but they are scared to even try, as you said they are in a comfort zone. To me, Acomfort zone of cages, not meaning any disrespect.
I am the same age as you are, security, I have found is for those with little ones at home and do not want to move. I have met a lot of people who are old than I am living the life and their dreams of being able to enjoy life to the fullest, in a motorhome, just rolling from campsite to campsite, seeing the scenery.
Why are so many people with material things, so unhappy? Why are the people with very little so very happy, and people call them bums. I live and travel in a camper across the country, enjoying my life, and looking to share the sites, adventures and beauty that I have seen, only to find out they want a house, to live in and a place to call home. I have a home and a house on wheels. Am I a bum, or is it that they are jealous?
Thank you and all I was doing was letting off some steam, so maybe I can find a very decent lady. Sometimes the best Drs are closer than a few words away.
It has been fun and I see that there is more out there than what I am used to. The first thing I have to do is shut down, reboot and start from scratch, which is easier said than down. You have been a blast and I am happy to call you a friend, and would like to converse with you when we can, on here of course. I can always used a swift kick to get me jump started, lmsao.
You could be right, but at least I am trying to find someone different. I have always took the hard way around, in life, the easy road is to easy and I have seen a lot of marriages break because it was given to them, and yes also because of the green backs.
I have also thought about that, but if I can not trust myself then who can I trust. My sister, has been there, I trust her, to a certain point. and that is as far as it goes. She has her life and I have mine. We have a brother but he does not trust us, so we take care of mother alone with each others help. We have been a blessing to each other and we respect each other.
I am not saying that there is not one out there for me but at least, I am not giving up, yet.
THANKS, but by the time everything was done, all the bills paid, court, attorneys and automobiles, mine was in the same 6 figure area as yours. But I have had some help from my sister who was divorced for 12 yrs. She gave up on love, but now she is back in the game, and I cherish her. we have supported each other through both divorces. Been there when we needed each other, and I have respect for her.
I know I will never find a woman like her, but at least I am trying. I guess my stubborn self will not give up, My sign is Taurus, stubborn and hard headed, lol.
This has been a way for me to vent, and get some insight into my own feelings. What you, Leni and others have said is true but I did not start this thread to be mean or resentful to women, or bash them. It has taken me this long to vent and get some relief.
I turned my divorce into work, working 12 hrs a day, 7 days a week. I thought it was time to turn loose, vent and see what happens.Liking people is no problem, it is trusting them, to be honest. I know trust has to be earned, and it can be given, but all it takes is, ONE to shatter everything. THANKS,
I am looking and yes I have and was abused, by my ex and some scammers on dating sites. I am looking with my heart and mind. Key words makes me run, and delete them from my list. I guess I will always look, to share things. I do not have a lot, but the one thing I truly want to share is the future, not the past. This has been a way for me to vent it out and try to start over, forgetting the past. THANKS.
I do not mind sharing my money, with someone special, as long as she is willing to try and meet me in the middle.
May I say that you are very fisty when it comes to your on feelings, and I like that. I am sorry, if I offend anyone, but a hurt is a hurt, and with all the comments, I am starting to feel better and laughing again.
My bitterness, and resentment has kept me surviving this long. With what she done to me and the scammers out there, it has placed me on the error of caution. And yes I am still single, but would enjoy sharing a future with the right person, Thanks for asking.
I will stay single and enjoy what I work for, money is not everything, but it helps to see the past, present and future. at least it is not being taken away by people who only wants to steal it and your life's work. If I offend you then I am sorry, but this is how I feel.
I have enjoyed reading your words and I have checked out profiles before replying. but then they want to send me their email on yahoo and try to scam me. I am sorry if it sounds like I am bashing but I am not.
I did not mean to sound like I was bashing her or any woman, but I have been hurt by the way some women act on here looking for the right man. If I offended anyone I am sorry, I just had to get it off my chest, and thanks for all the comments. I have enjoyed reading your comments. It has brought a different light to things.
lankycrewman Forum Posts (67)
Material things
I have for the past 4 yrs, and before that I was a truck driver running loads across country.