Where to start....The whole reason I chose to set up a profile and use on-line dating is because I'm lousy at chatting up women in a pub or club scene.I can never hear what they say and then get tongue tied for no apparent reason.More than likely it's nerves,but once I get talking I'm fine. Nowadays the online dating has turned into what I experienced in the real world.Try to talk to someone and all you get is no reply.Now it's not that I don't have confidence in myself and l'm not a drop dead gorgeous guy,but I was brought up to treat others as you would like to be treated. I'm not someone who gets a mail and doesn't bother to reply,or turns down a conversation with another human being when I'm out in public. I find a lot of women on here to be extremely picky and I'm sure it goes for the guys on here also.There is nothing wrong with saying "sorry but your not my type" or "thank you for the mail but I'm not intersted" A rejection is a lot nicer than no reply.
I could seriously rant all night about this but it's late and im up early in the morning.
I know where it is now,after a bit of google earthing. There was a place across from it years ago called surfers,that was the last time i was there id say And i dont think no one has gone out less than me
corkgizmo Forum Posts (1,582)
And i dont think no one has gone out less than me 
RE: Say what u like!!
Where to start....The whole reason I chose to set up a profile and use on-line dating is because I'm lousy at chatting up women in a pub or club scene.I can never hear what they say and then get tongue tied for no apparent reason.More than likely it's nerves,but once I get talking I'm fine.Nowadays the online dating has turned into what I experienced in the real world.Try to talk to someone and all you get is no reply.Now it's not that I don't have confidence in myself and l'm not a drop dead gorgeous guy,but I was brought up to treat others as you would like to be treated.
I'm not someone who gets a mail and doesn't bother to reply,or turns down a conversation with another human being when I'm out in public.
I find a lot of women on here to be extremely picky and I'm sure it goes for the guys on here also.There is nothing wrong with saying "sorry but your not my type" or "thank you for the mail but I'm not intersted"
A rejection is a lot nicer than no reply.
I could seriously rant all night about this but it's late and im up early in the morning.