Yes Drama I know how much I love drama lol Not in a million years. There are more important things to do in life like LIVING. You definitely have a great head on your shoulders.
Dating is what it is: Dating not "were getting married" or "this is the ONE" it is as you said meeting others till we do find the compliment that fits us best. I like to think we are looking for a reflection of ourselves so it is important to have the qualities within us that are the ones we want in a partner so we can attract them.
The other thing I noticed with dating is that we always seem to attract others by whatever our belief patterns are at. Sort of a strange observation but quite true. If I keep focusing my thoughts on the type of people I don't want; meaning my thoughts: "I don't want to meet women that are....." I seem to keep getting more of them lol
Hmmm speaking of living I think my dinner is burning
There are too many possible situations to even speculate about where he may in fact really be.
But their are always hints and it might be found in what is said and not said.
As for withdrawing both men and women do it so to say it is all men is just an excuse.
Do we as men do that in the effort to protect those we love NO! we do it because we are afraid to expose our vulnerable side. And when a man can be vulnerable what do women tend to do or say is: "this guy's to good to be true" or "for cryin out loud suck it up" or anything that might make him feel less than who he is. I am saying this in an objective and experienced point of view and I attached no emotion to it.
I have been guilty of withdrawing for those reasons as well as depression which is the #1 reason people in general withdraw from those around them. I learned to address each problem and turned it into a solution through positive growth. Does it make me better? sure it does but I am also far from perfect and perhaps in all of our imperfections we are absolutely perfect.
As for Draga's man, he is either married, maybe he has a drug/Alcohol problem, depression or a serious issue with communicating at an intimate level. He may very well not be into her because the online relationship is somewhat of a fantasy since you can not hear, feel, smell, or see each other in the same moment and space.
I would let them go because unconditional love never expects anything from anyone it just is.
Hi all I know I don't hang on the boards all that much since I am a busy busy boy. Pet peeves now that is an amusing subject lol
The things I stay away from would all fit into the so call peeve list: Negative anything whether spoken written or displayed
Conversations about people in general like a friend, a companion, spouse, relative etc.
Blaming others for our own mistakes and shortcomings, let's face it we have to be accountable for our choices including choosing to let what others say or do affect us at the emotional level.
When anyone presumes or assumes they know something or a situation but are not living it. I see it all too often. My take is unless it is happening to you in your reality you don't know jack.
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RE: Why do so many men stop communicating when they are in a personal crises ?
Dating is what it is: Dating not "were getting married" or "this is the ONE" it is as you said meeting others till we do find the compliment that fits us best. I like to think we are looking for a reflection of ourselves so it is important to have the qualities within us that are the ones we want in a partner so we can attract them.
The other thing I noticed with dating is that we always seem to attract others by whatever our belief patterns are at. Sort of a strange observation but quite true. If I keep focusing my thoughts on the type of people I don't want; meaning my thoughts: "I don't want to meet women that are....." I seem to keep getting more of them lol
Hmmm speaking of living I think my dinner is burning