hmmmmmmmm........ I see, you don't think that men like myself have been hurt like that? Think again! I've had my heart broken and toyed with lots of times, and yet I have not given up on the female spieces....not trying to offend, but it's just such a messed up thing, you know? I'm sure that I will know how to react when I meet a girl who is ready. You can't blame everyone for past experiences gone wrong. It's just not fair to the rest of us who mean love, not head games and heart break. The thing is I can understand the ferocity within one whom has been toyed with, I have felt it before, but I stopped because it just didn't seem fair and if I had broken and snapped at a person for the slightest thing, I would look like the fool instead of being the hero. I plan to get married, it really gets me down that the divorce rate is so high. People these days just don't seem to carry a sense of serious loyalty, and working hard at a relationship to make it work. I know that times change, but I mean come on, to give up those valuable morals that once existed is like selling your soul, just because it's easier to do so. Guys and girls like me are a dying breed. traditional morality should not be forefitted for the simple reason of being easier to just give up and let go.
yes, but I am talking about girls who put themselves out on the market, they say that they're not sure what they are looking for.....so why are they in the relationship section of the isle.....it just defeats the purpose. Everyone is allowed to have dreams and fantasies, I have my own, but really, girls and men should not be putting themselves in a catagory if they don't know what they want. I know what I want, just read my profile. lol. If the girl is putting herself out there, she should be ready for guys who are looking for the same instead of just misleading them and wasting time. and only to let them know the truth later, wouldn't you say?
Take the Lioness, the top male of the pride just sits around in the shade and all the females hunt. Don't get me wrong I can be agressive to, but I'd like to believe that women more appreciate a guy who is gental most of the time. Makes for a more nerturing (sp?) father.
Well, it's true that men also are like that, but I mean geeezz, patience can only be a virtue for so long. Never mind what that guy said in his post to this thread. He's obviously the reason girls think like that as well. lol
Just tryin not to pull my hair out about how to find and understand that 1 special girl.
I've just found that every time I meet a girl who I'd like to pursue a relationship with seems to be sooooooo affraid to commit and hyper-sensative to the fact that a nice guy like myself, who has a lot to offer, get's the bum end of the deal. I don't believe nice guys finish last, but I mean I give girls what they want in a guy and it doesn't seem to do the trick. Is it the fact that once they get what they want they no longer find it a thrill anymore?
Now, keep in mind that this is a point of view thread, I'm speaking from my own experiences.
But seriously, why is it soooo hard to find a girl that will just settle down and accept what's out there, rather than having these ridiculous standards that they will never find other than in their mind.
There really is something to be said about being realistic.
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