Oh then hunny ~ be glad you're done with it.. and move on.
It sounds like she didn't understand or fully except the concept of marriage and the partnership she entered with you.
No one person in a marriage should have to do it all.. its an equal partnership.. a union between the two of you ~ especially when children and their care is involved.
You sound like you were very patient and loving.. and what can I say?
Why did it take a "few" years of her asking you to stop!!
No matter what the reason.. it would be something that warranted a discussion to obtain some kind of understanding.. then stop it if she was uncomfortable.
Sorry.. didn't go to bed last night ~ so I'm a little foggy. Totally missed the point there!
Hmmm.. she sounds a little uptight, or else she may have some issues.. not meaning to judge, but thats all I can offer as an explanation based on your situation.
I would be disappointed if I had a husband.. boyfriend..lover.. who didn't flirt, talk dirty, or giving me a little love pat on my butt!!
That's the stuff that keeps the "spark" in a relationship.
I wouldn't let it hamper your desire to do it to other women you're involved with however ~ not every woman is the same. But it would be wise to test the waters a bit before diving in!
Physical attraction is first with me.. that is what catches my eye across a crowded room ~ but if his pretty mouth only has crap to say.. I'm outta there! lol
It's his outward appearance that grabs me.. but his personality and his heart that keeps me around.
I've also fallen head over heels for guys who are not my type physically.. but caputured my attention, my heart and my soul with all that he beholds inside.
You just never know.. that's why it's best to not judge a book by it's cover ~ you might just be passing up one hell of a good read!
I wear a gold locket with my Mama's picture and a lock of her hair in it.. I lost her tragically 8 years ago ~ and other than the odd occasion when I wear another necklace... she's always with me.
It gives me peace and comfort.. and I feel like she's close to me somehow.
You're very blessed... I'm genuinely happy for you.
I have a girlfriend who has founds hers too... he pampers her with so much love and effection it's amazing ~ and she is so deserving of it all.
And get this.. he even makes up a PMS survival kit for her every month.. including magazines, heat pads for her aches and pains, and the all important indulgence ~ CHOCOLATE! lol
He's a chef too and loves to cook for her all the time.. we all want to have him cloned!
RE: what would you love to do to the guy up above
My most heart felt thank-you to all of you above ...your kind words re-instilled faith in me that wonderful people are amongst us.And I will not let 1 sad little man get me down.. when I know I am surrounded by you beautiful, sweet people.
Thank-you once again.
And if anyone needs me to go to bat for them... you can count on me.
With all sincerity ~
Bella