Lol I don't think it's a matter of which gender should try harder but... Nice guys that tried to get with what they thought was a good girl got screwed over and are more reluctant and shy/cautious to who they go for next. I'm sure girls did the same. I think both genders if they want to find that special someone needs to put all their effort in getting to know a wide variety of people and not think you can find the love of your life in one hour but hey you might be lucky and find him/her in 5 minutes.
Lol maybe I don't make a lot of sense but it makes sense to me
I'm a good looking loser!!! And i think people think im a scammer, butt yea move on he's not showing any signs that he wants to be with you in that way.
RE: Why nice men are difficult to find?
Wear a skirt!!!!!! OMG yes !!!I've been mistreated by a two girls... But got over it and trying to find somebody.
Although I'm really shy in real life lol which sucks.