LeighCosta Forum Posts (1)

RE: Are two coffee dates enough time to know it's not working for one of you ?

In my opinion this is too much analysis. Imagine it were not a 'date' but just a meeting. If time passes extremely quickly or you want the metting to go on for longer then sieze the opportunity else move on. I think a coffee date to start is great, at worst its 30 minutes of boredom :-)

I will get attacked for the next comment I'm sure but I'm not sure you ever really know how you feel until the 'deed' is done, be it after the coffee or 6 months down the line ( i don't recommend either f these choices) :-)

In summary I guess i mean to follow your instinct, dont worry about the NUMBER of coffee dates, more about the quality.