well, from what I can see you're pretty cute...obviously you're just meeting the wrong chicks! Don't worry though, it'll happen and will be great! Like someone else said....we all go through it when dating. I think maybe it's some secret initiation!
You guys have all been really sweet and thanx for the feedback. I don't feel like I want their 'approval' per se, it's just that with the baby we will always be family and I don't want to hurt anyone. I still refer to Kevin as my fiance'....not past tense and I know that's not what I should be doing. It's only been a little over a year and I don't know if it would be fair to a guy I date that I still feel in love with Kevin. Maybe i'm over-thinking this. Maybe I'm trying to talk myself out of the whole thing....hell, who knows. Kev was a kind hearted and wonderful man and I know he'd want me to be happy. I guess I'll take my own advice to others...if it happens, let it. Thanx again....
I'm wanting to get back out in the dating world again BUT have mixed feelings on this. I was engaged to a man whom I loved very much and he passed away close to 15 months ago. We hadn't been together for an extremely long time but we loved each other and wanted to marry. I found out 2 weeks after he died that we were having a baby....rough, yes. I still love him and his family but part of me wants to date again. As odd as it sounds, I feel as though I'd be cheating on him. I don't want his family to think badly of me because they still look at me as their son's fiance'. Please, what do you guys think?
It's been my experience that when you stop 'looking' for love is when it happens for you. People are so wrapped up in a 'type' or specifics and the one you ultimately end up with is nothing like the person you thought you wanted to begin with. Just take your time, you'll find someone and don't rush it, that will only get you 'right now' not 'right'....ya know?
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