This is a question that has popped up several times for me, yes i would quit smoking but only for myself. Not for her, not for anyone, just for me. It may be a bad habit but i like to smoke.
Great job, on being sober. Its gotta to be tough. My hat goes off to you though, but yeah i do know being sober is pretty tough. I kinda go into binges every now and again. So when i am sober it feels a little weird to me, not talking to girls, but just a different enviroment i guess.
RE: what do you look for in a mate