Hi, You seem to make a number of presumptions for someone who never committed to marriage in the first place but I respect your views. However speaking as someone who was separated over a year before coming on this site (which was a big decision to re-enter the 'pool'), I had already deliberated on some of the issues you mentioned, such as moving on, as any 'normal separated person' would do.
Thus said; would a separated person not be safer, more stable and more confident of what they wish for the future as they would already have learned some of life's failings and pitfalls.
To quote: "It is better to have tried and failed than never tried at all". Also as human beings......do we not learn from our past failings? I also note that especially in your great and open-minded country 'failure', especially in business is worn as a badge of honour, and so it should be; it's all part of the learning process, as life is.
Yes, you have made some very valid points however I feel you arguement may be a little one-sided.
RE: A "SEPERATED" MAN OR WOMAN
Hi, You seem to make a number of presumptions for someone who never committed to marriage in the first place but I respect your views. However speaking as someone who was separated over a year before coming on this site (which was a big decision to re-enter the 'pool'), I had already deliberated on some of the issues you mentioned, such as moving on, as any 'normal separated person' would do.Thus said; would a separated person not be safer, more stable and more confident of what they wish for the future as they would already have learned some of life's failings and pitfalls.
To quote: "It is better to have tried and failed than never tried at all". Also as human beings......do we not learn from our past failings? I also note that especially in your great and open-minded country 'failure', especially in business is worn as a badge of honour, and so it should be; it's all part of the learning process, as life is.
Yes, you have made some very valid points however I feel you arguement may be a little one-sided.