How will you know if the person is right unless you take the time to get to know them. I have spent a lot of time trying to get to know someone to find out he just wasnt in it for the long haul which is fine, but i'm not gonna waste my time (or his) if we are not looking toward the same goal.
everyone has thier own time spance. You should definitly talk on the phone, web cam or Skype first always be honest about who you are and what you are about, what you're looking for be it friendship, realtionship or even a hook up if thats your thing. But always always meet in a public place and always tell someone where you're going to be. God Bless
RE: How long should you talk to someone online before you ask if you can meet them?
How will you know if the person is right unless you take the time to get to know them. I have spent a lot of time trying to get to know someone to find out he just wasnt in it for the long haul which is fine, but i'm not gonna waste my time (or his) if we are not looking toward the same goal.