I find most men are not serious about this process. I mean a written profile is like giving a guy an instruction manual of what a woman is about and what piques her interest. It is a statement of what is important to her and an honest declaration of what she is seeking. I find that my profile is rarely read and it is so obvious that is it laughable. No men so far have actually commented on ANYTHING I wrote in my profile. When are guys going to get it through their heads that you need to say specifics about what a woman said that you relate to so she knows when she reads your intro email that you actually bothered to read what she wrote? I tire of the men who immediately want to make excuses for why you need to contact them at their personal email address. I am in no hurry so if they are they can just speed on by. So I would have to say I don't think the large majority are serious.
RE: Are the men/women who are online dating, really into finding someone?
I find most men are not serious about this process. I mean a written profile is like giving a guy an instruction manual of what a woman is about and what piques her interest. It is a statement of what is important to her and an honest declaration of what she is seeking.I find that my profile is rarely read and it is so obvious that is it laughable. No men so far have actually commented on ANYTHING I wrote in my profile. When are guys going to get it through their heads that you need to say specifics about what a woman said that you relate to so she knows when she reads your intro email that you actually bothered to read what she wrote?
I tire of the men who immediately want to make excuses for why you need to contact them at their personal email address. I am in no hurry so if they are they can just speed on by. So I would have to say I don't think the large majority are serious.