fast_as_you Forum Posts (2)

RE: Dating with disabled person (on wheelchair or other serious disease)

Hi again Cristova, its never easy for anyone..this love-thing mystifies most of us!

Ive been in then out of love in and out of (girls) favor, only to find another one thinks im great then finds another!
its the way of this crazy world I think
Keep your head up ok?
Girls shall we make a poll of how handsome he is?

RE: Dating with disabled person (on wheelchair or other serious disease)

Cristova, I have some things to say to you young man ok?
Point one You are a good looking lad, make no mistakes about that.
Point two disabled people CAN make a contribution everywhere, dependant on their abilities and chances given, This also applies to romance you are a young man with lots of love to give I can tell.
I had an accident in 1996, it left me paralysed for almost a year, ive twice lost my eyesight (short-term) I was full of fear, and worry upset despair,also anger.. I was lucky I had friends, family to encourage me, today I am able to do most things I used to I NEVER forget that today is a great day regardless of anything else, ive learned to appreciate the small things in life a lot yes.

You can find love, its a fluid thing it can change as we know, however if we take care of love it can blossom. Love ive come to realise is many things, love yourself, I was unable to for a very long time, especially after the accident, I hated myself. slowly the "me" rose out of my self-denial and I found someone, it lasted three wonderful years, I too was in a wheelchair for a while, I found that as such I had to SHOUT to be even seen. let alone heard, I know my friend how it feels yet you have to live, enjoy life and realise whoever we are, we are all nor garanteed " love"..enjoy the site and who knows someone may just turn up when you least expect it
Have a good day Cristova :)