wendyseagull Forum Posts (24)

RE: SO MANY...SO DOWN...:(

I would love to show my photo here. I have uploaded it at least 6 times, tried different pics and have even sent into the contact us for help with no response. I am more than open to share a real photo of the real me. I don't find looks are the number 1 thing to me as much as what a persons insides are like. I do like to see who I am talking to though.

RE: Here's a question for the ladies....

I was married to a man from another country. Was is the key word. Did not deserve nor choose to be treated like a less than. I can do that all by myself if I choose. Didn't need someone to help me.

RE: Here's a question for the ladies....

I guess my opinion would be the same for all the questions. I don't think that anything is a man or woman's job to cook, clean, or cater. I think everything should be a shared joint effort. Sometimes one may have to do a little more in one area and at other times that role can change. Hey, it is 2007!!! Happiness is Home made

RE: whats ur fav thing on toast?

I bet you would be nice on toast

RE: anybody found their mate on this thing yet lol

whats the number? I will call it right away

RE: who's taken and who's not taken

I'm single Where have ya been all my life baby

RE: Extortion.

I really screwed up your plans. I sent a whole bouquet. Must be about 50 flowers in there. Some for the cat, some for the bird and the rest for you.

RE: What would give up to be with the one you love ??

I agree, true love is acceptance of one another unconditionally. A person should not want another to give up anything, it is up to the individual to know what they would like to change to be a better person

RE: do you agree that our past determins the people we become?

this daughter must have had a mother with a lot of wisdom. Thanks for sharing this

RE: Bad Boys

I must be out of the ordinary because I find the "bad boys" how you say it are not interesting at all. There are woman out here that want a gentleman that knows what he wants. That knows that a relationship is not only about how you get it up and on, it's building a good foundation so when you do get it on, it means something and the quality is much better. I would say don't change the way you are, you sound great to me.

Friends anyone?

Thanks for the reply. I will email ya. Keep in touch

RE: What About Honesty? Anyone Honest These Days?

When I suspect dishonesty I look at myself first and see if I have anything to look at. If I think what I am feeling is really coming from the other person, all I can do is ask. My gut feeling will tell me if they are being honest with me or not. Then it is my choice to either give them the benifit of doubt or trust my instincts and move on. We all have our own answers if we look inside and listen

RE: Love is too painful

Love is the most hurtful feeling in the world yet the most beautiful feeling in the world. Don't ever give up on love. It is what fulfills our very being. Give it time, one day at a time and it will get better

Friends anyone?

Is there anyone on this sight that would like to make a new friend? A friend to do things with or chat with? I am new to South Carolina and would love to hear from you.

RE: Is age just a number????

As for my life experiences, I have been in long relationships with a man younger and a man older. I didn't think age mattered. At this point in my life I would have to say that in some circumstances for me it did. I would prefer to keep my age of interest within a certain range. I think it would only be fair to both sides. I think at a certain point in life we grow up together and at another point we grow together

RE: Is it wrong

Honey, the greatest thing I think a man can have is values, to move slow and want to know what a woman is about. A woman with values is great too. Put the 2 together with an open heart and an open mind, a little willingness to respect one anothers values and you just can't get any better than that. It is never wrong to be you. Thank you for being you

inner light

Thanks for your 2 cents It is worth a million

inner light

Thanks for the reply but I really think there are hot guys everywhere. I lived in Canada for many years.I am new to South Carolina and was hoping to meet some new friends, maybe more.I guess it will be worth the wait to meet the right person that can see real love when it hits them in the face. From the heart, mind, body and soul.

RE: question for the girls.....

When you treat a woman the way you would like to be treated, with an open heart, total honesty and communicate about anything and everything, consideration, respect, trust and everything else will follow. The true you knows what you need so be yourself. How can any woman not love a man that is for real Hugs to ya and best of luck

RE: Why don't men approach women if interested in them?

hugs to ya You could chase me around any time

inner light

Why do you think so many people tend to see a person only for there appearance on the outside instead of the light of love that glows on the inside? We all have that inner glow so why are so many of us single? hugs to you all

RE: TOP FIVE LIES MEN TELL

1. I would never cheat

2. I have never loved anyone the way I love you

3. I will never leave you

4. beleive me

5. I would never lie to you



Have to beleive ther are some faithfull ones out there

RE: Is it wrong

I think it great to be a gentleman with values, to move slow and build a good foundation to get to know someone. I think the key to any relationship is to be fortunate enough to meet someone that can communicate ( 2 way street ) what they want, why they need to move so slow, etc.. no matter what the situation may be. We are not here to change anyone else nor to have anyone change us. Acceptance is wonderful and my hat and heart go out to you for wanting to be a gentleman. Never change that great quality

RE: Why do people start to communicate, then stop, with no explanation?

Hi! From my own personal experience on these sights, the people that usually don't have the decency to let you know they are not interested are not the kind of people I would want in my life anyway. Either it is they don't like the way you look, think they are to high classed for you, etc..
I personally think these people have to look at themselves but who am I to say. I have enough to look at myself to be as good of a person as I can be. In my book, the way totreat others is the way you would like to be treated. It is very nice to meet someone that feels the same. I do agree that we are all here to be wanted, needed and loved here is to wishing everyone luck with the love and happiness they deserve