I'm sorry that you had to deal with this, but not all women that list they don't have their children with them are all bad.
I have been in this situation with my ex who painted this horrible picture of me in our custody case to where I almost lost my children due to his lying. Everyone thinks that women will automatically get the children in a divorce/custody situation...not always. There are always 3 sides to a story the Husband's, Wife's and the Judges decision. In my case I ended up hiring a very expensive cut throat attorney and 2 years of my life proving that I was a good parent and that these were all lies do to my ex's infidelity and strange reality of having his children blending with his new girlfriend later wife.
In the end I did get primary custody, but it took heaven and hell to get to this point. So please don't judge until you've heard why they don't have their children.
Oh I've had a few of those dates online and I love the excuses that their co-workers or friends put them online by scanning their pics and writing their profiles....can we say exaggerated
RE: how many of you actually went out with someone off this site?
Was GREAT until he wanted to move closer...liked the distance.